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Mallory Ortberg, aka Dear Prudence, is online weekly to chat live with readers. (Sign up below to get Dear Prudence delivered to your inbox each week. Troubled twin: I am writing as a final act of desperation.
I keep hoping it might go away, and instead just find myself obsessing over it more every time I try to move on.
If even that seems prohibitively expensive, you might consider attending a support group in your area like Co DA.
Meetings are free, some are available online, and “the only requirement for membership is a desire for healthy and loving relationships.” Your decision not to share this with your sister or her girlfriend is, I think, a wise one, and while I can’t promise that this is going to go away overnight, I do think that with therapeutic work and assistance you will find things get better.
We all grew up together and I’ve always felt we had a strong connection, but it was only months before they began dating that I began to consider my feelings as more than a friendship.
Now, I am desperate to get over them but find myself at a loss. I have gone on dates with other people (of both genders, to see if that was the issue—it didn’t help).